I live in rural Pennsylvania with a guy named Thom. We have an open relationship that functions with varying degrees of success, from 'perfect' all the way through 'awkward silence'. I prefer it far more than the alternative.
I mostly joined IAM so I could spy on Shawn, but I'm slowly coming to enjoy it for non-stalky reasons as well.
Some random things I enjoy: Antique medical equipment, apothecaries, bark, bones, books, bottles, breathing in and out, brocade, cedar, chamomile tea, donna tartt, franz, garters, going through your garbage, guignol, hardwood floors, harold and maude, hats, henna, ironing, laudanum, lemony snicket, leonard cohen, love, making art, malady (my cat), mint tea, monsieur mange tout, moss, neil gaiman, oil, oingo boingo, painkillers, paper, rain, seam ripping, snow, soft beds, talking heads, tattoos, the color brown, the fort, the pied piper, the pogues, the secret history, the simpsons, things that are shiny, things that are soft, vacuuming, visiting, waking ned devine, water, wells, writing letters.